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Do Physical Looks Mattter???
Contributed by
R.G.Love
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Tuesday, 3rd September 2002 @ 08:40:32 AM in AEST
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Does the Physical Attraction “really” matter???
Does it matter what someone looks like physically? Do we prize the physical too much! I'd say no! Although someone’s outward physical attractiveness is just the package, it is also a lot more. It is the advertisement that gets you to walk into their store. Their heart, their soul, personality might be good, but if your interest is not peeked by their sales package you'll most likely not be taking the time to find out. Just like a consumer orientated establishment attracts perspective customers to their establishment, we in turn also attract our suitors through our outward physical appearance, and although this outward appearance is only part of a bigger package it is the part usually seen first, so it matters!!! We've all known wonderfully nice people, whom physically, just didn't float our boat and therefore, since no attraction laid therein a romantic relationship was made void!!! To those who say you want someone who’s more than just physically attractive, I would agree, but our curiosity needs a spark and physical attraction, someone we find physically attractive provides that spark!!! Does Physical Attraction matter! I say yes! It does matter whether or not someone is physically attractive. You can only judge people on what you see and what you see is the physical, and you either like what you see or you don’t!!! So, in my estimation, the physical does matter. What do you say??? What matter to you??? What are the qualities you look for???
A follow up argument:
In my opinion the Physical maters very much. I know the argument that you can fall in love with someone over time, that when you get to know someone and love that person, the physical seems to matter less and less and soon doesn’t matter, at all. Now, that is a good argument, but what about attraction??? What happens when that person, whom you’re more attracted to physically, comes along, and if you should find, also, that you share an emotional and spiritual connection, with them as well, what happens to your current but much less attractive to you love interest!!! If you were to leave them for this other person or in a moment of weakness just cheat with someone that you found more physically attractive, that more physically thrilled you, what would it do to this person and to the relationship you shared with them. It is find to love someone whom may, perhaps, be less physically attractive them others and whom you don’t find not all that physically attractive, and I would agree you can share a deep emotional and spiritual connection with said person, but that does mean you have to share a romantic relationship with them. Friends is a wonderful things to be and sometimes, the better thing, better to keep a lifelong friendship than to risk hurting a friend when that better option comes along!!! The question that really needs to be asked is can a romantic relationship survive that lack of physical spark, and if it does, will you be often times wondering what you could have had with another, why not have it all??? Physical attraction is important, not the most important. You do need other curial factors, like the emotional and spiritual connection and a sense of peace and serenity when you’re with that person, but why not find someone to whom you are physically attracted that you can share these others things with!!! 3 out of 4 isn’t bad but 4 out of 4 is better!!! Why not 4 out of 4??? What about the Physical Attraction??? Can you really live without it??? Some people have to take what they can get, so, 3 out of 4, well, it’s great for them, but if you can have it all, a perfect but 4 out of 4, Why not!!! The physical does matter, in that, in pleasant surrounding we are just more pleasant, in that, if you like someone physically and everything else is there, you’re more likely to be content!!!
Robert Gardiner
R.G.Love
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Re: Do Physical Looks Mattter???
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by Chrissylee on
Tuesday, 3rd September 2002 @ 09:09:37 AM AEST
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| Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and real beauty and physical attraction is skin deep its what comes from within that draws another person forth. But to cheat and go with another because you find you have a physical attraction to another is just not the way to go in my opinion having been through that sort of physical hurt myself. When making a choice as to who to spend the rest of your life with you should make sure that you are always going to be faithful utterly and completely to that person. That you are never going to cheat on them cuase once you do you crush that persons heart utterly and completely thus taking them years to get over it and be able to love another and to trust another ever again. So to me no physical looks don't matter beauty comes from the heart. |
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